What is Love(In relationship)?

Nowadays most of the people don't understand the true meaning of love. Therefore, most of them end up in tragedy.These people always blame love for their own action. This is because they misunderstood the meaning of love.

FOR THEM, LOVE MEANS:

> like that person

> can be together without concerning other people feeling

> the feeling to own their lover

> forcing other to accept their love

> wouldn't let other get their lover if they can't get their lover( even though destroy their lover)

> willing to die just to be with each other even though that person doesn't love he\she anymore

> is everything to them & their life will end when they don't get their love back

HOWEVER, this is not true love but

SELFISH.

This is because they only care for their own feeling & ignore others.

If a person really love & care another person, they will:

> willing to let that person go if that person can find happiness

> protect him\her from danger

> willing to sacrifice anything including his\her own life just to make sure that their lover can live happily & wouldn't ask any repay from his\her lover.

> will be happy if he\she saw his\her lover is having a good time.

This is the true meaning of "true love".

Therefore,a person wouldn't get happiness &

true love if they always count on everything & want other to repay their love.

Then, these people is just being

SELFISH.