Tuesday, December 28, 2010 | By: Mangavhyl

What is COOL?

Nowadays people have different type of perception about the meaning of "cool"(bergaya) especially teenagers. There are many types of categories of things that can make them feel it is "cool" such as:

LANGUAGE (word,body\sign)
> says something that is rough like the cursing word or any types of word that is unpleasant
> show bad body language to others

We can see or heard it whenever we are & the worst thing is even the children are start saying\showing those unpleasant words\action to each others.

BEHAVIOR
> being aggressive & violent

SEEING OTHER HAVE THE GUT TO DO WHAT THEY WANT TO DO
> commit suicide
> fighting

BULLYING
> make them feel powerful
> enjoying other people pain

ILLEGAL SPEED RACING
> can show off their talent
> get people attention
>feel great when they got fan or admirer by doing those activity

BREAK THE LAW
> show that they have the gut
> feel challenging

All of these action make some teenagers respect those people who did it because they think it is cool. In order to be cool, they will follow their lead. HOWEVER, all those action are NOT COOL AT ALL!

Those action can cause many negative effects such as:
> affect the reputation of your family
> spoil your own reputation & dignity
> endanger other people & their own life\safety
>increasing of immorality among children
> social problems will increase

There are still many types of ways to be cool such as:
> donate food & money to the poor
> help those are in need
> involve yourself in WWF( World Wildlife Fund)
> donate blood
> & many more

Courage should be used in the right place.
Then one will only get the true meaning of COOL.


Friends..

There are 3 types of friends in this world:
* Best\true friends (real BFF)
* Normal friends
* Fake friends

BEST\TRUE FRIENDS
> be with you no matter what happen (good times & bad times)
> lend you a helping hand or even a helping ear
> guard your secrets
> advise you when they know\see you are heading to a wrong path
> always tell the truth about yourself
> won't cancel any kind of meeting that you all have promise although he\she gets a new BFF

NORMAL FRIENDS
> hanging out with you whenever you are free
> share their good times with you
> help you when you ask
>help you to expend your social cycle (they probably has different friends)

FAKE FRIENDS
>always give you sweet talk
> take advantages from you
> leave\ignore you when you are having troubles
> talk bad things behind your back but be nice in front of you
> spread your secrets to the whole world
> hanging out with you during the good times but leave you behind during the bad times

Therefore, always know who are your friends & remember to APPRECIATE them if you have true friends BECAUSE you will regret it when they have leave you due to your childish behavior with them.

A part from that, we should also look into the mirror & ask ourselves which types of friends are we? True, normal or Fake?

In order to get a true friend, we should be the true friends in the 1st place.